April 2012 Weddings

4/21/12 check marks

Hi all! I am interested to know who else has the same wedding date as ours and what you have done so far and have yet to do. We have (if I can remember everything-and these are not in particular order):

1. booked venue
2. buy wedding dress
3. buy jr bridesmaid dress
4. had rings already (heirlooms)
5. bought wedding shoes for me
6. blocked hotel rooms (just yesterday)
7. bought silk flowers to make bouquets for me, sister, and niece
8. no tux/FI is wearing suit he already has
9. booked honeymoon
10. thought about decorations to use for venue
11. have officiant
12. sent STDs

Have NOT:
1. looked at wedding cakes
2. bought decorations for venue
3. sent invites

I'm sure there are lots of things that I'm missing. How about everyone else? We have 80 days left!
Jamie 9/1/2013 BabyFetus Ticker BabyFruit Ticker

Re: 4/21/12 check marks

  • Hey date twin!

    We have done:
    1. venue
    2. STDs
    2. wedding dress-having alterations done now
    3. bridesmaid dresses
    4. booked dj, hair and makeup, cake, linens, caterer, florist for bouquets and bouts, my grandpa will marry us
    5. wedding shoes
    6. blocked hotel rooms
    7. bought silk flowers for centerpieces and have put half of them together
    8. tuxes tonight
    9. booked honeymoon (it's a surprise so I think this has been booked)

    Need to:
    1. buy invites
    2. BM and GM favors
    3. card box
    4. isle decor (if any)
    5. buy liquor

    I can't believe we're 80 days away! It's going by so so so fast!!!!
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  • I am a 4/21/12 bride :)

    Items Done
    • Venue (includes Food)
    • Church
    • Photographer
    • DJ
    • Wedding Dress
    • BM dresses
    • Tuxes for the guys
    • Wedding Cake
    • Favors
    • Photobooth
    • In process of booking transportation (limo bus and shuttle for guests)
    • Honeymoon
    • Florist (someone who works for my parents)
    • Started collecting decor for centerpieces
    • Shoes
    • Organist for ceremony
    • Pre-Cana/Marriage Prep
    • Picked out wedding rings (just need to buy them)
    • Blocked hotel rooms
    • Booked hair and makeup (trial will be in March)

    Not Done
    • Sent invitations (have designed, need to assemble and send)
    • Dress fitting (first one is in Feb)
    • some DIY items (card box, centerpieces, table numbers, bathroom baskets)
    • Flower Girl Dresses (being made by my sisters MIL)
    • Pick out readings for ceremony
    I feel like I am forgetting something...
  • I did forget something! :) I've also booked the photographer!! One of the most important things, and I missed it! haha!

    And I still need to pick out the BM shoes, buy our rings, AND PICK OUR WEDDING SONG.... I feel stupid for not knowing our song yet!!
    Wedding Countdown Ticker
  • Another Date Twin Here!!  So far I have:
    Booked Venue (includes food),  DJ, officiant, photographer
    Sent out invitations
    Booked Honeymoon
    Ordered BM and GM gifts
    Got my dress, shoes, + accessories
    Ordered Rings
    Ordered Favors

    I still need to:
    * Pay for Everything (lol)
    * Get dress altered
    * Book Rehersal Dinner
    * Finalize Menu
    * Put favors together
    * Get write up of ceremony from officiant / pick readers
    * Do seating chart (once I receive all responses)
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  • Is anyone else starting to feel anxious / nervous / stressed with wedding coming so soon? 
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  • So many of us have the same date! Yay!

    The venue, menu, are set. 
    DJ, Photographer, Florist booked and set.
    All dresses bought/tuxes rented. I have my shoes.
    Almost finished DIY craft projects - flower girl baskets, RB pillow, ceremony decor, Chuppa, Ketubah, Thumprint guest book....
    Invites out - getting rsvps already!
    Had my cupcake tasting - YUM!
    Booked honeymoon
    Decided on Ceremony structure and readings, music
    Escort cards/favors 75% finished...need to wait for final seating assngments.
    wedding rings bought and insured

    So many things still to do! Like:
    Find/make a big blackboard for program
    hair/makeup trials
    buy rest of WP gifts and small accessories for flower girls' dresses
    finalize rehersal dinner plans
    Buy liquor for the bar (newly added item. Ugh!)
    researching the honeymoon and getting the marriage liscence is on his list...
    get my dress altered.
    And probably 50 m ore things....
  • Another 4.21 here :-)

    I feel like I haven't done anything! But at the same time I feel like there's nothing left to do! Anyone else feel that way?

    The only things I really have left to do is send the invites. I've just finished addressing them, and now they must go out. Get my dress alterations. And I haven't planned a rehearsal dinner. 

  • I'm a 4/21 bride too. I have gotten A LOT done, but I have a lot left too. Way too much on either list to even think it out, much less type it up. 

    2 months 3 weeks!!!
  • Have:
    • 1.      Booked Officiate/Church/Reception Venue, DJ, Photog, Caterer, Cake Baker, and lighting.
    • 2.      Got block of rooms at hotel reserved
    • 3.      Wedding night hotel reserved
    • 4.      Bought Dress
    • 5.      Bought BM dresses
    • 6.      Made Bridal/BM bouquets
    • 7.      Sent STDs out
    • 8.      Bought and/or found chair covers/sashes and the rest of the dishes/table clothes/silverware
    • 9.      FI bought/tailored his uniform
    • 10.   GM tuxes set up
    • 11.   Picked most of the songs/readings for the wedding
    • 12.   Picked most of the big songs for the reception
    • 13.   Bought shoes
    • 14.   Invites 75% assembled
    • 15.   Seating chart poster made (minus the names/tables..just the template)
    • 16.   Bought my guestbook/photo album

    Haven’t:

    • 1.      Bought his wedding band or resized my band
    • 2.      Booked Transportation (Probably won’t…kind of useless when you are only going 10 feet)
    • 3.      Sent out Invites
    • 4.      Dress fitting (dress just came in yesterday…yay!)
    • 5.      Guys boutonnieres…
    • 6.      Centerpieces
    • 7.       Finalized menu
    • 8.      Bought alcohol
    • 9.      Found Bar tenders
    • 10.   Booked hair and makeup. (On my to-do list this week…oops)
    • 11.   BP gifts
    • 12.   Made my garter
    • 13.   Bought my veil
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  • Yet another date twin

    Ok we have completed:

    Booked venue

    Bought my dress
    Bought bridesmaids and flower girls dresses
    Ordered Tuxes
    Bought wedding bands
    Reserved hotel block 
    Booked and paid for 
    honeymoon
    sent STDs
    Booked and paid for
    DJ
    Booked Photog
    Booked videographer
    Booked Hair and Makeup people to come to us
    Did my Hair trial
    Booked my Florist and went over mockups
    Purchased my jewelry and headband and borrowing veil
    Purchased Bridesmaids jewelry
    Booked Church- completed pre cana
    Booked Limos and shuttle
    Booked rehearsal dinner restaurant 


    Still need to
    Buy my wedding shoes
    Do dress fitings
    Go over wedding cakes
    Buy decorations for venue
    Design, make, send invites
    Complete Bridesmaids and groomsman gift
    Book
    Makeup trial
    Pick out
    favors and make them
    Construct card box
    meet with cantor and organist at church
    book rehearsal time at church
    DIY table numbers and cards
    Pick out readings for ceremony
    Select readers
    Finalize menu and linens as well as seating arrangements when time comes

    How I unwind? The FI and I watch old TV shows Photobucket 187image 124image 48image 15image RSVP Date March 31 Wedding Countdown Ticker
  • Yeah 4/21/2012 brides!!!!

    The only things I have left to do is:

    Buy my jewlery and understuff
    Buy his band
    Get an emcee for the reception
    Do seating chart and place cards

    After that...I'm done...woohoo...I dont like to wait on things so I don't get stressed...jsut waiting for the RSVP's to come back
  • Ack! Reading through these shows how much we do for this AND how much is left. I think I'll be more nervous and worrying about little things the closer we get. It sure helps to have you guys to vent with/discuss "trivial" details ( although we know it's not trivial)/ run ideas by/ get advice and suggestions. Just last night FI was saying he was tired of wedding talk and there is something every day. Well he should be glad I have this board to go to or he would really have to hear a lot! Wow! Getting close!
    Jamie 9/1/2013 BabyFetus Ticker BabyFruit Ticker
  • S&K - I know how you feel.  There are days I feel like I am ahead of where I need to be with this and other days where I feel overwhelmed by my to do lists. 
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  • If the men did as much as we do then they would understand...lol...they may help but they don't do nealy as much as we do
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_april-2012-weddings_42112-check-marks?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:05427f07-4ba2-44d6-9271-99a7af1ee5c0Discussion:5a9f3285-ccfa-40db-858e-dc31db7e5666Post:f84287d0-0f72-4848-a19e-d0c4fea7e1c4">Re: 4/21/12 check marks</a>:
    [QUOTE]Ack! Reading through these shows how much we do for this AND how much is left. I think I'll be more nervous and worrying about little things the closer we get. It sure helps to have you guys to vent with/discuss "trivial" details ( although we know it's not trivial)/ run ideas by/ get advice and suggestions. Just last night FI was saying he was tired of wedding talk and there is something every day. Well he should be glad I have this board to go to or he would really have to hear a lot! Wow! Getting close!
    Posted by redfallon[/QUOTE]
  • chickenbut143chickenbut143 member
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    edited February 2012

    I'm a 4/20 Bride and i'm really feeling in control these days.

    We only have a few things left to do....most are up to the venue or can't be done until we get all of our RSVPs back in March.
     
    - order the groom, best man, and 3 ring bearer's shirts online and pick them up khackis from JC Pennys (4 shirts, 4 pants)
    - discuss song choices w/ the DJ (venue providing)
    - discuss wedding flow/vows with the officiant (venue providing)
    - seating chart
    - escort cards 
    - Dress fitting sched for the first week of March!

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  • We have pretty much everything done, except:

    *Finalize payments to vendors
    *Book waxing appointment for week before
    *Boudoir photo shoot (in 2 weeks!)
    *Mail invitations (late Feb)
    *Order/buy FG, RB, Usher, and GM gifts (BM gifts purchased)
    *Finish BM hangers
    *Final fitting/dress press/steam
    *Decide on some songs like what FI and his mom will dance to, if at all


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  • This made me go through and look at my Knot checklist. A lot of them I deleted since they do not pertain to me, but it looks like I'm pretty much on track.
    Jamie 9/1/2013 BabyFetus Ticker BabyFruit Ticker
  • I'm also a 4/21 date twin too!  Its great to see so many other 4/21 brides also!

    Finished:
    -Booked: Church, reception (includes caterer), photographer, dj, makeup person, florist, pianst/organist, rehearsal dinner site, day after brunch/gift opening site (my parent's house)
    -wedding ceremony planned (just need to ask someone about bringing up the gifts and petitions)
    -all of the dresses have been ordered and purchased (mine, MOH, BM, flower girl, FMIL, and my mom)
    -save the dates sent
    -invitations & rsvp cards ordered
    -veil and shoes purchased
    -went over flower options and price quote with the florist
    -marriage preparation course
    -picked songs for the reception

    Need to Finish or start
    -write triva questions about FI and I for the reception
    -purchase/make guest book
    -finish/finalize overall timeline
    -meet with reception venue to go over menu and do the reception timeline
    -meet with the DJ, photographer, and bakery
    -rent tuxes
    -find a cantor
    -figure out transportation
    -book a hairstylist
    -assemble invitations (on Sunday!) & send them out
    -go over the rehearsal dinner menu with FI's parents
    -rent/purchase the rest of the centerpieces
    -do seating chart
    -purchase/make favors
    -make table and seating cards
    -purchase wedding party gifts
    -final meeting with our mentor couple (on Friday!)
    -purchase marriage license
    -buy wedding rings
    -book wedding night suite
    -finish gift registry
  • It sounds like most of us 4/21 brides have about the same left to do. I feel like i still have a bunch to do, but nothing that can't get accomplished in the next 10 weeks.
    The only checks i still need to do:
    1. Finish paying for everything!
    2. Finish making card box
    3. Meet with the church organist and select music
    4. Rehearsal Food tasting
    5. Make and Print Church programs
    6. Hair and Makeup trials
    7. Pick up dress from Alterations in March and do final fitting
    8. Assemble and mail invitations
    9. Get Marriage License in March
    10. Bridal Shower last weekend of Feb.
    11. Bachelorette last weekend in March

    Photobucket
  • 4/21/12 is going to be a spectacular day!

    Things I've done:

    -Booked Venue
    -Selected Menu
    -Booked Florist
    -Booked Photogs
    -Booked Band
    -Bought Dress
    -Bought Bridesmaid Dresses
    -Reserved Tuxes from Groom and Groomsmen
    -Sent Save the Dates
    -Ordered Invites and Thank You cards
    -Reserved Hotel block
    -Bought bride's shoes and veils
    -Booked rehearsal dinner and brunch
    -Booked Officiant
    -Ordered guest book
    -Booked Honeymoon

    Left to do:
    -Order linens
    -Select hair and make up artists
    -Order cake
    -Order Ceremony Programs and menu cards
    -Decide on Ceremony
    -Order cake topper, card box, guest book pen
    -Rehearsal dinner invites
    -Welcome Bags
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