So idk where else to get advice from so I came here for an outsiders opinion. In June, my brother graduated high school and moved in with me and FI. We did this out of guilt mostly because he was living with his friend in the town we bought our house and he basically assumed we'd let him stay here once he had to leave so he could still live near his friends. The deal was supposed to be he couldn't live here unless he had a license and car and job and maintained a 3.0 in his classes. Well here we are six months later and the only thing he has is a job which he only works about 15 hours a week at. My mom lives 40 minutes away and has been driving from her house, taking him to class a half hour away, and dropping him back off. My family was in a serious car wreck last week and now my mom driving him isn't an option and he assumes my FI will take him now. My FI is such a caring person and every time I've had it with my brother he's the one who reminds me how sad my brother will be to leave his friends and live with my family 40 minutes away. I already work 2 jobs and go to school and FI works 44 hours a week and should NOT have to come home and drive my brother to school. Basically I'm ready to send my brother back to my parents, which is closer to school btw, so my stepdad can take him. My thinking is, if I wanted to take care of a kid id have one. And I can't take it anymore and honestly feel like we're enabling him. But everyone in my family is guilt tripping me saying I need to be there for my brother cause its hard right now after my mom and sisters were in the accident. What do you all think? Sorry I'm on my phone so no paragraphs!
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