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May 2012 Weddings

Ish hath hit the fan! LONG!

Hi ladies,

Not sure if you remember my last MOH post, but she had been telling me since January that she was going to organize a Bachelorette party and has had everyones addresses since the first of the year.  Up until I was at the 20 day countdown mark, she had been telling me to let her handle it, but no one had heard from her.  My cousin (a BM) was asking me what was going on and I told her my MOH said she had it taken care of, so my cousin sent her an e-mail and a message on FB on a Sunday, and as of Wednesday hadn't heard anything from her, I sent an e-mail to MOH's work e-mail and asked if she had gotten any correspondance from my cousin and never heard back from her.  On Friday, my Cousin and another BM had still not heard back from her and decided that they were just going to plan something and send evites via Facebook, one was sent to my MOH and she freaked the heck out saying via text "Did I really just get an invite to your Bachelorette party via FB, I am so angry, I told you I was going to take care of it, I would have had to spend over a $1000 between, travel, unpaid time at work, hotel and my dress..you have been EXTREMELY unpleasant to work with and I cannot believe I ever agreed to even be your MOH" Wow...Ouch...I tried to smooth things over, saying that my cousin and I had tried to get a hold of her before creating the event, but she made no attempt.  So, needless to say...I am so done with this! As we've said a few times, you sure find out who your friends are when it comes to your wedding. Thank goodness my BM's are stepping up and being MORE than gracious!

Re: Ish hath hit the fan! LONG!

  • Ugh, that totally sucks!  I feel your pain, my MOH and I got into it this past week too (over the rehearsal dinner and bachelorette party, of all things), and it sucks.  As you said, you definitely do find out who your true friends are when planning a wedding.  At least your other BMs are stepping up, and maybe your MOH will cool off and realize how unfair she's being.  Good luck, and don't let it ruin your bachelorette (or wedding!)
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  • Wow, that is crazy! I mean it was wrong of her not to get back to anyone for that long period of time, but to say those mean things to you? That was completely uncalled for! 

    It is strange how when weddings happen you learn who your true friends are... Of course we aren't supposed to assume our BMs/MOH will step up and do things for us but we kind of expect them to because they are our friends... of course things happen and life can get in the way but... my MOH won't be giving a speech... I am still bummed about that :(
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  • Wow, that's ridiculous! It's not their fault that they didn't hear back from her and wanted to make sure you were still going to have a party. It definitely shows how awesome they are and how crappy she is as a friend. If anyone in my BP said something like that to me they would be OUT immediately. But I also have zero patience for anything so that's just me. Good luck dealing with her.
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  • Unpleasant to work with? Who does she think she is, your florist or something? She's your friend (supposedly) and she dropped the ball and is being ridiculously defensive. 

    My MOH lives across the country and could not fly out for my pre-wedding events, but she also didn't try to block me from having any of them by pretending she was going to plan them and then going MIA, that's crazy!

    I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. I would just try to enjoy the event your BMs plan for you and let her cool down, then maybe try to talk to her. 
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