Hello all! I am new to the knot. Got engaged Easter this year. Fiancee' and I are planning a SMALL, intimate wedding for 4-14-13 in North Carolina. So far, that is all I KNOW details wise. Planning is so stressful. I would just rather elope. We have family/friends all over the world, yet only want to invite 20-30 ppl. How do you do this without hurting feelings? To top it off even more, my fiancee' is jewish and I am not. So you can imagine that our parents are having a difficult time with this, even though they have all been great so far! We are actually new to the Charlotte area as well, so I dont' even know where to start with bridal boutiques etc. I know it will get better, but man I hate planning this!