My friend's husband posted something very cruel about her on facebook (again) and ended with how he is sick of her just sitting on her ass all the time. So I replied with, well, she is on bed rest per doctor's orders.
You would think he'd just be, like, well, what ever and end it.
Nope. He's furious at me. He called me a bad friend because I didn't go to her birthday party and accused me of not liking their kids as much as I claim to because I didn't go to their baptism. I know those accusations are bogus, but the very fact that he would say that is hurtful.
Please stop me from involving myself further. First of all, it's
facebook. I feel like a twelve year old. Second of all, there is nothing I can gain from this and everything to lose from this. In the end, she'll side with him and forgive him and probably just be mad at me. That's how abuse works. And I'll end up losing a friend in the process. So it's not worth acting like a 12 year old on facebook.... right? Or wrong?
And, no, I'm not looking for validation. If I need to be told I'm wrong, tell me.
On a sidenote, if anyone is curious about the actual post he made, please let me know and I'll PM it. I'm not posting it here for privacy reasons, even with the names smudged out.
