So, this weekend I'm going to head out and do some wedding dress shopping with a bunch of my family! I'm so excited! One of the other things I'm going to do while I'm out there is ask my 6 year old cousin to be a flowergirl! There are several reasons I want to ask her. One, she's my youngest cousin. Two, she's the only child of my godmother/favorite aunt. And three, I was a flowergirl for that aunt in her first wedding when I was 5. Its a natural choice! I want to do something special, but I'm kind of at a loss. I've got a picture book about being a flowergirl I'm going to give her, but I'm not sure what else. My sister suggested I give or share a picture of my aunt and I when I was a flowergirl which I have and it's one of my favorite pictures. However, that was from my aunt's first marriage and my cousin is the daughter of my aunt and her second husband. I don't know what my cousin knows of her mother's marital history and I don't want to bring up awkward questions, especially if my uncle's around or my aunt wasn't expecting it. My aunt would totally understand my intentions and her first wedding is not a taboo subject we've talked about it plenty since I've started planning my wedding but I don't want to overstep any boundaries. I guess you could say I'm already leaning away from this but I'm looking for a little confirmation. Also, do any of you have any cute or special ideas for asking a flowergirl? I may explain a bit more of what a flowergirl does since she hasn't been one before. TIA!
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