We are interested in somehow incorporating our guest into our 1st dance.
We were thinking of having a bowl of lighters and having everyone hold up a lit lighter during our 1st dance, but timing wise not sure people will hold a lit lighter for up to 5 minutes (don't know the 1st dance song as my fiance is surprising me with it at our reception), but we'd like to do something along those lines.
I checked out some mini flashlights, but everything I've seen so far is really cheesy looking. Our wedding theme is simple romantic elegance, flowers are roses and cali lillies...colors are black,white and red.
Anyone got any ideas? or possible websites to check out for some kind of mini flash light that doesn't look cheesy?