I received a shower invite in the mail on Tuesday for a shower that is taking place next saturday. Unfortunately, I can't go, which is sad, because I really like the bride and haven't seen her in almost a year. But anyhow, I really wanted to send a small gift from her registry even though I can't go, but there is no registry info anywhere. I searched the web, and emailed the hostess about it with no response. WWYD at this point? I don't really want to call the bride, but I don't want her to think I didn't care enough to come or send anything.