We are having our wedding ceremony at noon at church and then a full cocktail hour/luncheon afternoon reception. I am leaning towards having music as only the background without the usual dance party. Timing wise and venue wise it seems the right way to go but my fiance and my kids are arguing that it will be "boring" without it. I'm afraid they might be right but really don't want to have a full out dance blow out for the one hour we have available for that. What else could we do? And we are having an after party at our home in the evening where I will be happy to be dancing the night away. Thoughts? Suggestions?