Ladies-
I've been debating if I wanted to post this but I think it will help me feel better with everything that has been going on the past few months. Here goes..
When my FI and I got engaged last September I automatically knew that my MOH was going to be a girl that I met my first day of HS from Freshman year, 13 years ago- we've had issues in the past mainly her having lying / personality disorder but I figured she was over that since we've grown up.
After I told her I got engaged things changed with her, she went back to lying, throwing fits about the littest things, everything being about her when I would ask for wedding help, telling me on numerous occasions she didn't want to be my MOH because I'm too close with my Mother.
Well, fast forward- she has been planning my bridal shower and things copletely got out of hand. She wasn't communicating with other bridesmaids and lying to them with things such as; I told her they were on their own for hair and makeup and they should bring their own stuff to do everything day of, that we picked out the BM dresses without her, that I hate my wedding dress - I can go on but you get my drift.
Anyway, my Mom typed up all the attendees for the Bridal Shower and gave everything to her. Well, some of my family and friends contacted my Mother saying they never got their invites, My MOH blew off my Mom's texts and emails. When deposits were due told my Mom that the BM didn't have the $$ and that her credit cards were canceled to CC fraud. She told my BM they owed over $150.00 each for the Shower.. My Mom sent my MOH a text after she didn't respond after a week and a half and she said she was taking the Bridal Shower over. Well, never in my life have I seen such hatred and someone as disrespectful as her toward me and my Mom. I've been having chest pains, barely getting sleep and now am sick with a cold.
Finally, she texted me horrible things about my Mom- that set me off. I tried calling her but of course she didn't answer. I let her know that she is no longer my MOH. This was the last thing I thought would ever happen to me, but as everyone is telling me at least I saw her true colors now.
