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kevinandmonica2011 · April 2011

What's rocking your boat this week?

DondadaTimes2 · April 2011

I dont know that Id say "Rockin my boat" like its a good thing!

Ive gotta write that paper that kicked my butt last weekend. I met with my professor and he helped me understand it so much better. So hopefully it wont kick my butt again! Then I need to type up my 2 week discrimination journal and jot down a little diddy for my presentation of what I observed for my journal. Saturday night were going to dinner with my family cuz my dads in town. Hopefully I can get this all done this weekend and not need to take Monday off from work.

Then Sunday is hell day. Im all about Easter and what it represents, but when you have a million families to visit. Ugh. So breakfast with one family, over to anothers to visit, anothers for dinner, another for dessert. Too much.

acmj11 · April 2011

I flame my friends' dog for biting me so hard that I haven't had full use of my hand since Tuesday.

DondadaTimes2 · April 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_central-new-york_tgi-f-f-f?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:621Discussion:16936d1b-dde4-4452-aee7-f5f2cc79f695Post:3fd8aaa5-811d-443f-aec5-b25d2a808a2e">Re: TGI-----F-F-F</a>:
[QUOTE]I flame my friends' dog for biting me so hard that I haven't had full use of my hand since Tuesday.
Posted by acmj11[/QUOTE]

Ouch! I hope you feel better soon!

DondadaTimes2 · April 2011

I flame the "friend" who copy and pasted my assignment, dropping my grade from an A to a B b/c they were identical. Im still pretty peeved.

I flame all my paperwork and remaining balances that are due right now while Im in the middle of finals and papers. I have my priorities and the payments/paperwork will just have to wait a week!

kevinandmonica2011 · April 2011

I flame my BM for habitually making skanky faces.

AND for posting on FB that if I don't invite her new random screw (the third guy she has asked to bring to our wedding) that she is just going to sneak him into the hotel (what are we, 12??) because he "needs a vacay too". WTF does she think he is going to do all day?? Sit in the hotel with his thumb up you know where waiting for the reception to end? If he really needs a "vacay" so bad that you are hell bent on bringing him (an uninvited guest) to Syracuse for the wedding so he can sit in the hotel by himself all day, why don't you just save yourself the trouble and skip the wedding and take your new screw on a vacay? grrr.

DondadaTimes2 · April 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_central-new-york_tgi-f-f-f?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:621Discussion:16936d1b-dde4-4452-aee7-f5f2cc79f695Post:9353c1fd-c5a1-4487-b776-ddda139aea87">Re: TGI-----F-F-F</a>:
[QUOTE]I flame my BM for habitually making skanky faces. AND for posting on FB that if I don't invite her new random screw (the third guy she has asked to bring to our wedding) that she is just going to sneak him into the hotel (what are we, 12??) because he "needs a vacay too". WTF does she think he is going to do all day?? Sit in the hotel with his thumb up you know where waiting for the reception to end? If he really needs a "vacay" so bad that you are hell bent on bringing him (an uninvited guest) to Syracuse for the wedding so he can sit in the hotel by himself all day, why don't you just save yourself the trouble and skip the wedding and take your new screw on a vacay? grrr.
Posted by kevinandmonica2011[/QUOTE]

I cant help myself. Tell her "Yeah fine, bring him to the hotel. But if he shows up at the reception Ill have him escorted out. Hows that for a vacay?"

kevinandmonica2011 · April 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_central-new-york_tgi-f-f-f?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:621Discussion:16936d1b-dde4-4452-aee7-f5f2cc79f695Post:db41ce77-12d1-4c23-b2c8-683a06c988ea">Re: TGI-----F-F-F</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: TGI-----F-F-F : I cant help myself. Tell her "Yeah fine, bring him to the hotel. But if he shows up at the reception Ill have him escorted out. Hows that for a vacay?"
Posted by DondadaTimes2[/QUOTE]

I'm trying really hard to avoid drama.... I am at a toss up whether I should just say f-it and allow him to come, because she is being so ridiculous about it
Problem #1 with this.... it would open the door for about 12 other "random screw" dates on both sides that we have already said no to (translation about another $1500 to spend on people I have never met and will never see again. I don't freaking think so).
Problem #2- the people she generally associates herself with are... ummm.... less than desirable. I know it's being judgemental, but let's put it this way, the last guy she was excited to tell me about was "almost finished with his parole" (as if it's a good thing, but for her it was kind of an improvement... I guess)... yeah.... oh... and the one before that was married w/ a kid. Not exactly the type of people I want to treat to a nice evening out and have them around my family and friends.

DondadaTimes2 · April 2011

Oooo I had a friend like that. She used to date a guy who was 12 yrs older than her, seperated (not divorced) with a 10 yr old son, who was on parole for selling coke, who still did coke regularly, with missing teeth, and she thought he was Gods gift to women. At one point he attempted to hit on me and I told him to F-off and he told her I hit on him and she ended out friendship. Biotch please. I date men with all their teeth!

Thats a tough situation. I wasnt allowing non-serious dates but ended up giving in for the 3 people who have asked. but its an added like $50. So no biggie.

acmj11 · April 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_central-new-york_tgi-f-f-f?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:621Discussion:16936d1b-dde4-4452-aee7-f5f2cc79f695Post:9bef4e00-4c14-4b0b-b451-cc77a9fbce29">Re: TGI-----F-F-F</a>:
[QUOTE]I flame the "friend" who copy and pasted my assignment, dropping my grade from an A to a B b/c they were identical. Im still pretty peeved.
Posted by DondadaTimes2[/QUOTE]
She definitely deserves a flaming, and a beatdown in a dark alley.

acmj11 · April 2011

Monica, maybe you can convince this friend not to bring a date. When I was single, bringing a date to a wedding was just a hassle. I felt like I had to entertain him because he really didn't know anyone at the wedding. So, the next wedding I was in, I went solo and it was so much easier and way more fun.

sbolger17 · April 2011

Monica, what if you give her a +1 only because she's a BM (that is the person we're talking about, right?). Then that can be your excuse to the other 12 people who might want to bring random screws (unless they're in the bridal party too).

kevinandmonica2011 · April 2011

Sarah- I thought about it, but 4 of the other WP members are not bringing dates also. They are all ok w/ it and probably wouldn't either way, but I would still feel the need to tell them they could bring a date.
It also wouldn't solve problem #2.... the fact the he is most likely some sort of drunk, ghetto, druggie, scumbag... who is going to start trouble (she is a notoriously angry drunk and all it would take would be for this idiot to look at some other girl sideways to send her flying off the handle. She chugs anything she can get her hands on, especially if someone else is paying.) ick...

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