So back to this bar nonsense. FI is pissed because I told him the budget doesn't allow for the $2000 for the hosted bar. He said if there is no bar, he doesn't want to have a wedding at all. SCREECH! Hold up.....80 days out really?
So Yea, I went OFF....clean off! Because my mom and I are footing the entire bill within a budgeted amount. We're not having a rehearsal dinner because I said I wasn't paying for one more thing. His mom had said she was going to do it and then backed out, so I'm going to take my girls to dinner, give them their gifts and be done with it.
I think if he's so strong about it, then he needs to pay for it. But I'm not about to strain myself and my pockets when we have 2 kids under 5, afterschool fees, daycare, and everything else. My mom told me the amount she was contributing and everything else is on me. FI has always felt it was stupid to have a wedding if you have to "penny pinch" but I think its stupid for someone who isn't contributing to have an opinion.
What do I do?
180 Made the cut!
129 Ready to drop it like its HOT!
7 Found something else to do
44 Are just plain RUDE!
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