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wording for bachelorette thankyous

Hi! I'm writing thank you notes for the girls who came to my bachelorette party last weekend and am having trouble with wording. I want to make sure to acknowledge that everyone chipped in to pay for the weekend, but can't seem to come up with wording that sounds okay. What have you written to thank your girls for attending and contributing to pay for the event?
Thanks!

Re: wording for bachelorette thankyous

  • ac_in_dcac_in_dc member
    2500 Comments
    edited March 2010
    Without getting too specific, here's the sort of thing I wrote:

    Dear x,

    Thank you so much for celebrating at my bachelorette party with me last weekend. The penis tiara/fancy dinner/limo rental was really fun, too. It was awesome to spend time with all of my girlfriends; you guys have been a really important part of my life in the past and I know you will continue to be in the future as well.

    Mr. Seabury and I are both excited to celebrate with you again at our wedding, if not sooner.

    Love,

    mseabury
  • Mentioning words like generous, giving, appreciation, thank you, amazing time, lasting memories, and a funny anecdote from the night would probably work...

    Maybe I am missing what is giving you trouble. Thanking some one is not that tough if you really mean it. I mean, I get that you don't want to be crass and outright mention money, but there are plenty of ways not to do that.
  • Brie2010Brie2010 member
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    edited March 2010
    I just did these, and I made a point to pick out certain things I knew each BM did.  One picked out and booked the hotel, so I talked about how nice it was, one brought wine and champagne so I thanked her for that, one picked the restaurant, etc.
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