Oka I don't even know where to begin, me and FI have been together over 4 years and lets just say me and his mom have never been bff's. Well things really got outta hand 3 yrs sgo when our son was born, he may have only been 3 or 4 days old at the most, and i had a stank attitude this day i just had a csection 3 yr old getting on last nerve so she took my attitude as me having a problem with her so this huge argument breaks out between me,him,his mom, and his grandmother and ladies when i tell yall im glad i have much respect for my elders im telling you if she had caught me at 17 or 18yrs old i woulda clocked her ass cuz she was in my face going OFF i mean yelling pointing her finger everything! So FI took up for me and jumped in her face and they started to go at. So fastforward 3 yrs me and her just recently just started back talking to eachother, so where i need advice is her and my mom have only met 1 time at the hospital. 3yrs ago when pooh was born so I told FI i do not want our wedding night the first time our moms have interacted with one another. Whew sorry for da long ass story but i just dont kbow what to do like i've been the bigger person and started back be nice to her