Originally we were going to have full service catering of bbq at the wedding, but my father lost his job and I am trying to reduce the cost of everything if I can. It will be about $500 less to have a taco bar with no full service catering than it would bbq with full service catering. This is by no means a fancy wedding, so I am assuming it won't be a big deal. I wouldn't care if I had to serve myself food at a wedding...would you? Please help, we will spend the extra money if we are going to look really bad, but dad isn't going to be able help out as much as originally planned, which means we have a lot less to work with.