Ive been planning my wedding for almost 2 months, I am a bride with OCD so I have to plan everything to a T. I had a luncheon with all my bm and MOH and my MOB stand in and my best friend who is not in the wedding but is helping with everything. We all talked about the date to go pick dresses. I want to see the styles on the girls so I know the best one for all of them together. One of my oldest friends who is also a BM and is married to my fiancees cousin cancelled the luncheon and is now cancelling the shopping trip. Even worse when I was talking to my MOH about the situation she said she had the same problem with this girl being in BM in her wedding!! I am seriously worrying about how many things is she going to cancel for. Do I replace her with someone else or do I just deal with it. For the record when we set these dates for these things I talked it over with all my girls to pick the best date and time for everyone...the appt at the bridal store has been set for a month!!!!!!!