So I am trying to find my BM's dresses that are not "bridesmaid" dresses so they can actually wear them again. I am also trying to find affordable ones. I am going crazy trying to search online and in stores for this! My wedding is a beach ceremony/backyard reception in July in South Lake Tahoe so I want purple chiffon-ish short dresses. My colors are lavender, purple, charcoal grey. Should I cave into the ease of buying matching "bridesmaid" dresses or keep searching!? Any suggestions on dresses??