I have been friends with Jennifer and Stephanie for @ 7 years. Jennifer is 45 years old, and Stephanie is 41 years old. I am 29 years old. And they were friends before they knew me. I was engaged before and when I told Jennifer of my engagement, she was negative and did not respond at all as a friend should. We are still friends, but not as close. My dilemma is I am engaged and our wedding date is set for May 19, 2012. I am sure that I will ask Stephanie to be a bridesmaid, but is rude not to ask Jennifer this time? I dont want her to purposely screw something up because shes bitter or unhappy about her age, and not being married by now!!