So my wedding day was really bumpy which wouldn't have bothered me. Having my sis knock my head band off my head and messing my hair before I even get in my dress!!! My wedding dress after being steamed it was too long and missing a button on panel. We had to take off the dress and put it back on 3 times before we got it right.
We did our fist photo shoot in a back alley which was my idea. But the BM kept going "oh no my shoes." and I was a Lil annoyed but fine. But I ruined my loubintins!!!!!
Second shoot was a park with all our family. That's was hell. My mom wanted to be in every photo. Pushing me to do poses I hated. Telling my poor photographer what to do. Basically just being selfish. I felt bad for DH's family they didn't get nearly as many photos. But there was 6 compared to my 20 ppl in my family.
The ceremony was beautiful and perfect in my eyes. Post ceremony at the church once again my mom wanted to be in all my photos and saying I need to do more family photos. I didn't get photos with my friends that I wanted. Or shoots of my sibling individually. Mom not letting be myself on my wedding day.
Reception was starting late but whatever. I got my sibling shots there. Dj messed up the bridal party entrance song, fine. I walked out to the right song!!! Did the first dance and cake cutting fine. But was missing the fog I rented for the first dance.
Then all hell breaks loose. Tea ceremony!!! My uncle from out of town decided that he will tell me that my estrange father went to the park to see me on my wedding day!!!!!! My father was not invited and I still stand by that. I couldn't hold back all my tears. That was only in the beginning of my tea ceremony. DH thought I was just emotional about the ceremony but don't know what they were talking about. I told him right when we sat down. Crying in his arms. Having my coordinator come and rescue me to the bathroom. My coworkers came to see how I was not my own family that ruined my day. If it wasnt for my coordinator telling me " to man the f up" I would have left my own wedding. DH had to tell our guest to not talk about the tea ceremony. DH and I didn't have dinner or anything to eat the whole day trying to fit everything into our day.
Lucky I stayed couldn't find my purse the dancing started 30 mins before it should. We had to stop the party for speeches and bouquet toss and garter toss. Ppl went wild when they saw our video at the reception.
I'm glad I stayed but was very hurt from all of it. My mom thinks she's in the right and was upset DH and I didn't call her for a few days after the wedding. How did she expect me to call crying my eyes out. Sorry I just need to vent about it.