My Fiance doesn't really want a wedding, but I do, and we've compromised on an extremely small, inimate ceremony and reception with closest family only. We're talking like 20-25 guests here, folks. Super small, and done our way- no first dance (we don't dance), no garter toss (that's just weird), etc. Its our wedding, right? Whatever we want goes!
Except that Mr. FI doesn't want a thing to do with the planning, and if I try to talk over plans with him he gets really frustrated and pissy. I'm basically supposed to plan the whole thing with our moms and my friends, because he "doesn't even want it anyway, but I know you do, so do whatever". Its starting to really bug me because this is supposed to be such a happy, light-filled day and I don't want him to be miserable. I'm trying to do everything with him in mind, but I'd like an opinion or two now and then.
Am I being a diva about this? Is it normal for the guy to not care about the details? My parents eloped (which we considered, but ultimately I'd feel like I missed something special without my family there and we'd have a reception anyway, which he STILL wouldn't want!!) so they're no help.