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B-Party Recap (PIP)

Jessa617 Jessa617 member
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So my Saturday night started off fantastic. We had pizza at my apartment then got picked up in a limo to head into the city to a "male review". I had a fun time...until I got home. I somehow managed to wedge myself in between couches trying to turn the light off and almost knocked over my hamster's cage. I woke up to plenty of bruises. The guys stayed overnight at a hotel so FI came home a little later Sunday morning. Well, we had gone the whole day talking about each other's nights and I knew he was leaving something out. He and his friends all kept smirking and laughing. Clearly he's hiding something. He finally admits that they went to a strip club even though he didn't want to go. I was fuming. Not because he went to a strip club, but because he felt he needed to lie about it. I'm so hurt right now and I don't think he realizes how much a little lie can hurt. It makes me wonder "well what else isn't he telling me?" you know? Not sure if I should make him sweat it out a bit or if I should just get over it. Anyways, here's some pics of my night (the second to last one is my favorite): 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 
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  • julibug86julibug86
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    It's tough because if it truly wasn't his idea and wasn't something he wanted to do, then I get him not wanting to tell you.  I know it's lying by omission, but he clearly knew it would upset you even though nothing happened.  I don't know - just trying to play devil's advocate!  Plus, you were with strippers too, so maybe just call it a day?

    Anyway, looks like you had a ton of fun!  We were also out in Boston Saturday night - maybe our limos crossed in the night :)
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  • Jessa617 Jessa617 member
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    Yea it is tough. He told his BM from the get-go he didn't want to do a stripclub because he hates them. There were about 15 guys all together and they all wanted to go so he kind of had no choice. He said he stayed at the bar the whole time. I believe him. That's why I was so hurt that he didn't tell me, because he knew I was seeing "strippers" as well, although these guys don't get naked.
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  • vk2204vk2204 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_april-2013-weddings_b-party-recap-pip?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:820178d7-4f43-4671-bcab-c5c2c01eef1eDiscussion:a32ecd2c-28b2-4112-83c2-9eb96cf8c37fPost:6ad32799-2572-44c9-b837-e34786831526">Re: B-Party Recap (PIP)</a>:
    [QUOTE]Yea it is tough. <strong>He told his BM from the get-go he didn't want to do a stripclub because he hates them. There were about 15 guys all together and they all wanted to go so he kind of had no choice.</strong> He said he stayed at the bar the whole time. I believe him. That's why I was so hurt that he didn't tell me, because he knew I was seeing "strippers" as well, although these guys don't get naked.
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    That would upset me more so than anything else. It is your FI's party... why would they make him do something he didn't want to?
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  • Jessa617 Jessa617 member
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    He's actually pretty angry with his BM. My FI texted me at one point and said he was having an awful time because he didn't get to do anything he wanted to do. I feel bad. I almost want to take him out this weekend and do something special.

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  • phoenix870509phoenix870509 member
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    My FI's bachelor party was also Saturday and he told his guys he did not want to go to a strip club. It's not something that interests him. Luckily his friends listened to him. They went shooting then went to one of his favorite restaurants and kept buying him drinks. I'm sorry your FI's friends didn't listen to his wishes. I agree I would be upset if he didn't tell me, but I'd also be mad at his friends for not respecting his wishes and would have told them as such.  

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  • vk2204vk2204 member
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    I am sorry for your FI, that stinks. If he got dragged there, then I wouldn't be too upset. But I would def tell him that you are hurt by his lying, and you hope that he will be honest with you about anything and everything in the future.
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  • Jessa617 Jessa617 member
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    Thanks guys. This makes me feel better. I told him I didn't care that he went, I just prefer he be honest with me from the get-go.

    Phoenix I'm glad your FI had a good time. That was the other thing that irritated FI, out of the 15 other people that were there nobody offered to buy him a drink but they were all buying each other drinks. I honestly think it's time for him to step back and take a real good look at his circle of friends.
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  • orangehillsorangehills
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    Looks like you had fun!! Sorry about FI :/ Boys are weird when it comes to lying by omission, it's like they'd rather not hurt us even though they know they didn't do anything wrong, but by doing that, they hurt us! Too bad his BM didn't listen to him.. I'd let him slide on this one though, maybe you two go out this weekend and do something fun as a date that you know he'd enjoy!
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  • adawn1981adawn1981
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    It looks like you had a great time!
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  • Jessa617 Jessa617 member
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    I couldn't have asked for a better night, it was perfect. I have zero complaints.
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  • tiny specktiny speck member
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    Glad you had fun; sorry about your FI's B-party though :(
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