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  • HobokensFuryHobokensFury member
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    edited June 2012
    First off you're already married so you already had your wedding. Since you are already married you do not get a bridal shower or bachalorette party. You should not register either. It was your choice to elope so you missed the boat on the pre wedding fun.
     
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    Since your were married in 2010 in DC where gay marriage was legal, you already had your "actual wedding ceremony".   You don't get a redo. You can certainly plan a vow renewal, but please don't call it a wedding because it is not, it is a vow renewal. There are no pre-wedding parties for vow renewals, so no showers, no bachorlettes, etc.  A lot of people don't give gifts for vow renewals, but some of your guests may still want to, so maybe a very small registry. Do not include registry info in invitations and do not give out information unless you are asked for it directly otherwise you will look greedy.

    BTW, anyone that tells you your marriage does not count becaue you are lesbian is an IDIOT!  Have a great vow renewal.

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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_registering-gifts_registering-for-vow-renewal?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:34Discussion:885de353-0343-4a4b-b90a-5552890902e0Post:4ace7a60-aec8-4b33-8f2b-7863fb94f7cd">Re: Registering for Vow Renewal?</a>:
    [QUOTE]If it was LEGAL in my state I wouldn't have as you said eloped. Plus weddings are expensive and we didn't have it so no we did NOT have a wedding. You don't have to be rude about it.
    Posted by JillyBean42782[/QUOTE]



    No one was being rude to you. You were given advice based on proper etiquette.
     
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_registering-gifts_registering-for-vow-renewal?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:34Discussion:885de353-0343-4a4b-b90a-5552890902e0Post:4ace7a60-aec8-4b33-8f2b-7863fb94f7cd">Re: Registering for Vow Renewal?</a>:
    [QUOTE]If it was LEGAL in my state I wouldn't have as you said eloped. Plus weddings are expensive and we didn't have it so no we did NOT have a wedding. You don't have to be rude about it.
    Posted by JillyBean42782[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>You said that you were married in 2010 so YES you did have a wedding. You may not have had the wedding you dreamed of but you did have a wedding. You are currently married so you don't get another wedding unless you divorce and get remarried. You can certainly have the vow renewal ceremony, but don't call it a wedding. It's just NOT! You are not entitled to wedding related parties, etc. with a vow renewal.</div><div>
    </div><div>You said you missed out on things, but you ARE married so you did not miss out on that which should be the most important matter.

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  • MNVegasMNVegas member
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    DD, Seriously!!??  Obviously the OP did not really want any advice, just validation of a bad idea.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_registering-gifts_registering-for-vow-renewal?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:34Discussion:885de353-0343-4a4b-b90a-5552890902e0Post:ef143d5b-0841-41e1-a117-c87d1e1a45f6">Re: Deleted</a>:
    [QUOTE]DD, Seriously!!??  Obviously the OP did not really want any advice, just validation of a bad idea.
    Posted by MNVegas[/QUOTE]



    Obviously
     
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