Ok so my bm dresses are a light gold color. My mom was looking at a plum dress and it looked gorgeous next to the bm dresses. So now I am thinking about changing my color scheme and having the girls wear a plum shoe. We are just having red rose bouquets. I was thinking of possibly having the roses wrapped in plum. My question is, is that too much color? I am going to try and work on an inspiration board but my mom seems to think it will be too much but if she is already wearing plum then I don't think it matters that I incorporate it into the bm's