My mom just sent me an email that she just bought plane tickets for her and my sister. For a while now the plan had been that only my sister was coming. But I don't know how to react yet. My mom and I have been arguing a lot this week about negative comments that have come back to me about how I shouldn't have planned the wedding in Ecuador. People who before never saw anything wrong with it but now coincidentally have something to say. Basically making FI and I look like crappy selfish people. Apparently the source was my mom and all her negative opinions about how she doesn't understand why we're getting married here. When I confronted her about it she said she has nothing to do with it, she hasn't said anything negative about us or the wedding and obviously someone is trying to stir up drama between us. Not sure I believe that 100% but I decided to let it go.
Anyway with all the ridiculous drama going on and her elementary "silent rule" attitude towards me for the past weeks, I don't quite feel excited yet. I'm also anxious it's just going to fall through again (she had bought tickets like 3 months ago and something crazy happened with this same website and her credit card company and in the end there were no plane tickets) She says Monday night my brother gave her concrete plans of where he'll be and with that info she felt at ease to come. Yes, it's good news.. but I still feel a little suspicious. I'm sure it will wear off soon once things are better between us and I'll get all excited again. But for now I'm not getting my hopes up too high yet. Just wanted to share the update
