Hello, I"m new to the knot weeding boards so bare with me

Just got engaged 3 weeks ago and we've decided on a Maui wedding on October 18, 2012. We are so excited and just our parents will be coming with us. My biggest concern is which beach to marry on in West Maui. I'm considering DT Flemming and Ironwoods. Has anyone been married on either of those who can suggest another one. My biggest request is for a more private beach. It will be on a Thursday in October so I would hope for less crowds but who knows. Any suggestions would be great! thanks