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Do I have to have her there?

missy*smissy*s
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Mr fiance's sister in law had a huge fight with me and doesn't speak to me. Her and her husband are separated, do I still have to invite her to my wedding?
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Re: Do I have to have her there?

  • lyndausvilyndausvi mod
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    not if they are seperated.  If they get back together that might be a different story.






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  • tldhtldh member
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    when is your wedding?  Your profile is not coming up.  Unless it's in the next few months, I wouldn't worry about it yet.
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  • missy*smissy*s
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    My wedding is in November...
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  • redheadfsuredheadfsu member
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    Have your FI ask his brother what he wants.

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  • marissa_clairemarissa_claire member
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    Yeah if they are separated I would say no.  My aunt is beginning the process of a divorce, so even though the STD had his name on it, the invite did not.
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  • NillaWafer10NillaWafer10 member
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    Nope! I would definitely consult the family though.  The husband may not want her there, but he would probably appreciate your consideration.
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  • aerinpegadrakaerinpegadrak member
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    My dad and my stepmom separated shortly before the wedding.  I left it up to him who his guest would be, he didn't end up bringing anyone.
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  • VictoriatxVictoriatx
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    nah if she's going to go getting into fights with you and she's technically not in the family anymore then i wouldn't invite her.

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  • KaylaSue19KaylaSue19
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    If they are not together anymore, it is a pretty obvious no to me if she is going to be picking fights. If they are back together at the time though I would try and respect his decision if he wants her there.
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