My FMIL has been ill for several months now and her doctors can't figure out what is wrong with her. I wasn't privy to her health until this past Thanksgiving when she passed out. I had found her sitting in a chair, completely ashen faced and sweating. I asked if she was okay, and of course, she said she was fine. Well, to make a long story short, she nearly passed out and had to lay down for awhile. Sh refused to go to the hospital, saying she has been through this before, etc. Of course, this put everyone in a panic.
She has seen 7 doctors and refuses to see a doctor in Boston. Last night she tells FI that the night before she got up to get a drink of water and fell head first between the fridge and the stove! Her husband, luckily found her. Did they go to the doctor? No. These two are Portugese old country and don't like to be taken out of their element. It's frustrating to say the least.
We are afraid that something will happen between now and May, or something will happen while we are on an island for the wedding, or even on the ferry ride over. She gets short of breath and dizzy, and partially looses eyesight. FI and I don't get it. She has seen 7 doctors and no one can figure it out. It's also the refusal to go to a major medical center in Boston where she could get the care she needs. There are translators there!
I care about my FMIL and would very much like to see her live to see our wedding and grandchildren. Unfortunatly, we feel there isn't much we can do. Neither will listen and take advice.
Thanks for letting me vent.....just need some thoughts and prayers that a doctor will figure this out...