.... and I am kind of conflicted!
We went to David's, followed by two smaller boutique places. I really liked the dresses from the second place, and there were two especially that I thought were great, one by Casablanca and one by Maggie Sottero. My sister took a bunch of pictures, and I was excited to look at them, but when I got home and took a peek, I kind of felt like they didn't capture the way I felt in the dresses or how beautiful they were in person. Honestly, I've been a little sensitive about my body lately, and I kind of feel like I look like a lace tank in these pictures.
Here I am in the Maggie Sottero dress, which is the one I liked better:

And here's a slightly different picture of the same dress:

And here's a link to the dress on the Maggie website, if you want to see more details:
http://www.maggiesottero.com/dress.aspx?style=J1083I'm kinda conflicted, so I could use any sort of thoughts. Did any of you guys feel like the experience of having a wedding dress on at the store was much different from seeing pictures or thinking about it later?
Also, if I ordered a dress with a corset back, would that give me more leeway on sizing if I decided to lose some weight (since of course I would not buy a dress that didn't fit me now)?

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And after I got home that day, I looked at the one picture I had, and I didn't like it. But I felt beautiful in the dress, and that's what mattered to me. Of course, I will try it on again before I order.
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- I think you look beautiful and happy in the pics. The dress accentuates your curves nicely and is gorgeous. HOWEVER, if you feel a major discrepancy between how you felt in the dress at the store and how it looked in pictures, that's important to pay attention to. Dresses can be great in person but come off differently on you on film. If it doesn't look like "you" in the pics, then perhaps another dress would be the one for you. You don't want to be looking at your wedding pics years from now and wondering if you should have gone with something else.
- I didn't have a corset back, but wish I did. From what I've heard, it does ensure a good fit if there will be weight loss or fluctuations.
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I'm kinda sorry I didn't tell my sister to photograph the back of the dress, because the way the corset looked was kind of my favorite part. Maybe I should just stop looking at the pictures.
The salon has a sale until the end of December for all wedding dresses, so I'm thinking I may spend the next month in celery and elliptical mode, and then go back and try it on again and get measured when I come home for Christmas.
The other thing is that it's pretty much the opposite of everything I thought my wedding dress would be: it's lacy, girly, strapless, a corset, and it has a train. But I guess I should go with what works on me? The simple dresses just didn't look good.
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I had definite dress doubts when I would look at pictures from my shopping experience. Photos do not show the embroidery on my dress or the way it moved when it was on my body. When I had it on I felt incredible and I feel like the wedding pictures were better but still not "omg that dress is amazing".
I wish my dress had been a corset. We figured a zipper would be easier, but it was harder to stay exactly the same size. If I gained weight it wouldn't fit, and if I lost too much it wouldn't fit, so there's that.
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[QUOTE]What about looking at the pics makes you feel different? Second thoughts or the way the dress actually looks in pics? Is it not how you remember it? Because it looks like the dressing room didn't have the best lighting, you could always ask to take pics in natural light, if that makes a difference. Very pretty, btw, very classic. I imagined you in a crazier dress (although I don't know what or how).
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Hm.... well for one thing, I felt really tall and willowy and I felt like the dress made me look thinner when I had it on, but I feel like my body looks like a different shape in the pictures. Also, I know the lighting is bad, so the gorgeous lace and the chiffon hem and everything just doesn't come through. Maybe I was standing differently to look in the mirror than I did to get the picture taken.
On the crazy angle - I actually dress really plainly in real life, lots of solid colors, classic cuts, jeans all the time, no ruffles, and such. So I really want a dress that looks classic, but with rich material.
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I told FI last night that I might be getting a dress with a corset, and his ears really perked up. I think he likes that idea.
And FMIL was along on the trip to look at dresses, and she is already offering to chip in toward the dress as my Christmas present, since it's a little over my budget.
Maybe these are signs.
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[QUOTE]Thanks for all the pointers about corsets, guys! I think I might see where I am in December, and then order the dress at that size. Then I know I can have some peace of mind about what will happen over the remaining seven months before the wedding. I told FI last night that I might be getting a dress with a corset, and his ears really perked up. I think he likes that idea. And FMIL was along on the trip to look at dresses, and she is already offering to chip in toward the dress as my Christmas present, since it's a little over my budget. Maybe these are signs.
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[QUOTE]Because I am partial to Casablanca, I'd have to know which one you tried on before i said that I liked the Maggie.
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Sarah, the Casablance dress is this one:
<a href="http://www.bestbridalprices.com/casablanca-wedding-dresses-style-1840-p-3049.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.bestbridalprices.com/casablanca-wedding-dresses-style-1840-p-3049.html</a>
The pictures of that one came out even worse, partially because the sample was too small for me and it was pinned in the back, but here is a picture:
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The nice thing about this one was that the fabric was really light, and the lace pattern was subtly beautiful, while the Maggie dress was pretty heavy with the beading and such. When I first put on the Casablanca dress, I skipped around a bit.
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I went dress shopping, for real this time : Sarah, the Casablance dress is this one: <a href="http://www.bestbridalprices.com/casablanca-wedding-dresses-style-1840-p-3049.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.bestbridalprices.com/casablanca-wedding-dresses-style-1840-p-3049.html</a> The pictures of that one came out even worse, partially because the sample was too small for me and it was pinned in the back, but here is a picture: The nice thing about this one was that the fabric was really light, and the lace pattern was subtly beautiful, while the Maggie dress was pretty heavy with the beading and such. When I first put on the Casablanca dress, I skipped around a bit.
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<div>That's the same reaction I had when I put on my Casablanca. And I giigled like a school girl. </div><div>
</div><div>I've seen people in the dress shop in that dress, when its properly fitted, and it is amazing. Simply gorgeous. Maybe give it another shot before you give up on it. I LOVE Casablanca gowns, though. I have one hanging in my closet right now (SQUEE)</div>
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I went dress shopping, for real this time : That's the same reaction I had when I put on my Casablanca. And I giigled like a school girl. I've seen people in the dress shop in that dress, when its properly fitted, and it is amazing. Simply gorgeous. Maybe give it another shot before you give up on it. I LOVE Casablanca gowns, though. I have one hanging in my closet right now (SQUEE)
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I just took a look at your dress, and it is so pretty! The Casablanca dress I tried on is pretty neat. I'm going to have some thinking to do.
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But, if you're having doubts, then just keep looking. You don't have to hurry into anything. Maybe check in your area at home?
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[QUOTE]I think what I dislike about the Casablanca dress is, the lower waist isn't going to give you the definition that every woman needs around her waist. :) The Maggie gives you curves for miles. Go with that. But, if you're having doubts, then just keep looking. You don't have to hurry into anything. Maybe check in your area at home?
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Snippy, I think I am going to look at home a bit, although hearing from everybody here has cheered me up considerably. :) I really did feel great when I was wearing that dress in the store.
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[QUOTE]The other thing is that it's pretty much the opposite of everything I thought my wedding dress would be: it's lacy, girly, strapless, a corset, and it has a train. But I guess I should go with what works on me? The simple dresses just didn't look good.
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I swear I wrote this verbatim when I found my dress. :) I love both dresses, but the detail on the first looks AMAZING. With your wedding having such intricate steampunk details and that feel, I think that dress would be so pretty in your setting.
Never look at flourescent-lit photos of yourself. There's not a shot of anyone taken in that light that's not cringe-worthy. Also, take some close up detail shots of beading and lace patterns so you'll have them to help your decision. GL, Pretty Lady! :)
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The consultant told me that the corset gives you about 2 sizes down of leeway in terms of weight loss, before needing alterations. That's one of the reasons I chose it. Also, it gives me a really fantastic shape.
Whichever dress you choose, I am sure you will be happy with it!
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