So, I've finally lost the weight I gained after I met FI (darn his cooking!), but I was already trying to lose 10-15 before I met him to get back to where I was and back into the clothes in my closet. He's known this for some time, but this is the first he's seen me back to the weight I was when we met 18 months ago and several times lately he's made comments about me not needing to lose anymore.
I'm not fat, but I know my body and my least favorite parts (arms and thighs) don't get smaller until I lose from this point. I won't lose much more from my middle because I never carry weight there in the first place. I have been working on toning them and that helps, but I know from being in uber awesome shape before that no amount of toning matters until I hit a certain weight and my dress is strapless and I have serious dread about what the pics will look like with my arms.
I wouldn't be giving it a second thought except that he's made the comment more than once and while I was losing for me and not him, I still want to look good for him. I told him this morning to let me lose it first and then he can decide if he wants me to gain it back. Anyone else have this issue? Any thoughts?
