African American Weddings

This Sister of Mine!!!

You all might recall the last txt msg convo I had with the lil sis over a week ago. This lil heffa JUST txt me... since March 28. This is what the txt said:

"HEY YOU THINK IT'LL BE OK IF I GET **** DRESS INTO MY SIZE SINCE IT WAS TOO LATE TO ORDER MY DRESS"

One of my BMs is her sis. But WHY would you even think it's ok to take HER dress and get it altered to fit YOU? Did you just put HER outta MY wedding so that YOU could be in it?! WHY should SHE be penalized because YOU ain't order YOUR dress?! I don't even know how to respond to this foolishness. 1st of all her sis is bigger than her... by a few sizes. Now I know clothes can be altered, but DANG! Does she know how much that much alterating it gonna cost? Does her sis know that she just tried to put her outta my wedding?!

I'm speechless... really!

Re: This Sister of Mine!!!

  • edited December 2011
    can't believe YOU are speechless...LOL!...so check it, respond to her like this (or in so many words): Girl quit playin, of course it won't be ok for you to take *** dress; if you wanna still participate in the wedding, it would be cool for you to be a hostess and you can get your dress in XYZ color from XYZ store but if you don't wanna be a hostess that is fine but the dresses that *** has is for her to wear as my BM.
  • edited December 2011
    I say you let her sis know what she said and see what she says. More than likely lil sis hasn't said anything to her, but that is a mess. Then respond to her

    well if you take her dress what is she suppose to wear as one of my BM's since she ordered her dress on time like I had asked?

    Yeah I would put her on the spot just to see what foolishness she comes up with.

    Good luck
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  • edited December 2011
    What alfdallas said is good too. You may cause more drama if you use my response
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  • edited December 2011
    I had to come out of lurking to say that Alf hit the nail on the head!! Your little sis is outta control honey!! lol
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  • edited December 2011
    I agree, you should answer her question with a question. What is ***** going to wear? I would love to hear her answer. Honestly if you are getting this much trouble from her now, what else is she going to pull on the big day. Don't let her over throw her sister out of your wedding. You need people that follow directions.
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  • sheshedukeshesheduke member
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    edited December 2011
    WOW lil sis is cookoo for cocoa puffs forreal follow alfdallas instructions that would be the best way to handle it but she is really a plum fool for that one seriously!
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_this-sister-of-mine?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:400Discussion:2f685e76-0110-43c2-a41f-bc625e1a8c58Post:c9aacf85-3f7b-4962-9571-093df031d978">Re: This Sister of Mine!!!</a>:
    [QUOTE]can't believe YOU are speechless...LOL!...so check it, respond to her like this (or in so many words): Girl quit playin, of course it won't be ok for you to take *** dress; if you wanna still participate in the wedding, it would be cool for you to be a hostess and you can get your dress in XYZ color from XYZ store but if you don't wanna be a hostess that is fine but the dresses that *** has is for her to wear as my BM.
    Posted by alfdallas21[/QUOTE]
    This 100000%
    And cc her sister on it so she can see it.
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