I got engaged a couple of months ago and my folks offered to fund the wedding, which is really generous of them. We live 3000 miles apart from each other and have been for about 10 years. I'm an event planner/coordinator, and they want to be involved in the planning process, but so much happens fluidly that it's been hard to communicate.
What makes it worse is that everytime we talk, I feel that they shoot down all my ideas (and those of my fiance). So all of our communications related to the wedding are getting more and more negative. It's to the point where I don't even want to talk to them about it because I'm afraid they'll just say no all the time. It's my wedding, but they're paying, and they have a very strong pre-conceived notion of how it all should happen.
I am so sad that this process turned so ugly so fast. Can anyone offer advice? thanks.