We are having cupcakes at the reception instead of a cake. I'm wondering if people that have done this still have a small round cake at the top of the cupcake stand for the cake topper and for me and FI to cut? But if we are going to cut it does it need to be taken down from the cupcake tower at that time?
I also really, really want to have a Groom's cake. But if we have one who eats it? Does someone, like our parents, just take it home afterwards? Because all the guests will be eating the cupcakes. Or does a Groom's cake normally get served out to the guests?