So my FI goes to Family Court on Monday to see if he will be allowed yet to have visitation with his daughter. His ex gf (mother of his daughter) says she doesn't want him to have custody and still wants to keep that in place. We are fighting to drop that and gain visitation. The judge said in order for her to want to contuine with this she has 90 days to have a valid reasoning for this order. I guess that may be somewhat in our favor.
The big thing that blew us out of the water was that once he was back in WA on Tuesday he gets a call from his Attorney stating that she (mother) agreeded that she would allow visitation to him but he will need to go back on Thursday. Which is almost impossible for us to come up with the money to get him back there. So if he doesn't then she can show the judge that he turned it down so it will be more amunniation for her case. We're fighting a losing battle here. We both feel like theirs something behind this whole masquerade. She did this once before and pulled the rug out from under him.
Seriously I don't know how much longer my FI can hold on and fight. I see the wear and stress on him and see the toll it has taken on him and his emotions. I just can't understand the reasons that this woman is doing this to him. How long that she has been vindictive and holding a child has a pawn in her game. Depriving a child from her father and her grandparents and the rest of her family on her fathers side.
Their is no reason why this is contuining there is nothing that FI has done harmful to her or his daughter. When is this nightmare going to end who is going to put a stop to this madness and let this father have his rights.? I am so frustrated and angry that the family courts are blinded to this.
I just wonder where this womens conscience and heart went? She doesn't see the harm that she is causing her child? I won't speak ill of this woman I actually feel sorry for her, that in her hatred she has created that in her child and not given a chance to her to have her father in her life. No matter if he wasn't a good bf at the time (she seems to forgot her mistakes) he is a great father and he loves his little girl more than anything in this world and all he wants is a chance to have her be part of his life again and to have her part of our family has well.
Thanks I just needed to vent.