So, I went to a wedding shower last Sunday. I posted one piece of the drama on our fb page, but there was another thing that happened that also bothered me. I will try and keep it short and simple and to the point. The wedding shower was for a girl that was marrying my fiancé’s cousin (second cousin) and one of her bridesmaids who I will call Jane, is married to my fiancé’s first cousin (I see her often at holidays, bbq’s, etc.). Well, during the opening of the gifts, Jane was opening the cards and announcing the names of each person and the gift they bought for the bride and when she got to my gift, I watched Jane open my card then close it, then throw it to the girl who was writing down what each person gave in the cards (I assume this is for when she writes the thank you letters). Well, she never said my name at all and when she opened my card, I swear it looked like she rolled her eyes. She said everyone’s name before hand and was saying names after my gift was given. I was really hurt and felt snubbed. It’s possibly she forgot or didn’t realize it, but it really hurt my feelings. I don’t understand why she would do that if it was intentional because I wasn’t aware there was a problem. We’re not soul sisters, but we’re cordial at holidays. Obviously, I am too busy to get upset over this, but what would you do? I don’t think there is really anything I can do without looking petty. What do you guys think? Would your feelings be hurt?