Hi!! My husband and I are planning a renewal ceremony for our 20th wedding anniversary (March, 2013). The traditional colors for the 20th are emerald green and white. NOT my cup of tea. We are more warm, exotic types. The venue will most likely be a ceremony and reception at a resort. My dream is to use metallics (silver or platinum, copper, gold), but those shades are traditionally for other anniversaries. Would it be in really poor taste to break this rule and color it the way I'd like?