stage fright?????

Re: stage fright?????

• [Deleted User] member

  

  October 2012 edited October 2012

  My first thought was have a drink/shot before the ceremony but seeing as you're pregnant that's probably not a good idea! Maybe doing a first look with your groom can help calm your nerves. Breathing exercises and keeping the focus on your groom is your best bet. Good luck!

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• Ali092011 member

  

  October 2012

  This is going to sound cheesy, but look into your FI's eyes. H HATES the spotlight and doesn't "do" public speaking or anything that draws attention to himself (I think that's part of why he's a chef, so he can hide in the kitchen). What helped was walking down the aisle together, arm in arm (I know that's untraditional and might not be everyone's cup of tea--we chose to do that for several reasons) and looking each other in the eye through much of the ceremony. Like Stage said, pretend it's just the two of you and your officiant, and you'll be fine.
  
  

  

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• clairebear8675309 member

  

  October 2012

  thanks ladies! lol yeah im preggers so i cant drink or i probably would be taking shots before. I always planned on that too ugh. Originally I wanted to go very tradl and not see him before but from what some of you are saying i think i will. Its getting closer and closer (Oct 28th) and the more i think about it the sicker i feel (and i know its not morning sickness lol). wish me luck! 

  

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