About a month or so ago, my FMIL suddenly went on some tirade that I never showed her a pic of my dress. I was confused, and told her I showed her a pic on my phone on 2 or 3 different occasions. She claims she never saw it, and was upset that I had shown the pic to some family friends but "never" showed her. I even told her a specific occasion when I distinctly recall showing her and she claims I didnt.
So to smooth it over, I brought her with me, my mom, my MOH and FSIL to go pick my dress up when it came in. I put it on for the first time and she was totally unphased. She was in la-la land and just said "oh yeah thats pretty." Then she and my FSIL (who is getting married a month before us) went and looked at dresses, which I told them was fine. I was working on my stuff with my mom and MOH and she was helping FSIL with dresses. No problems there.
But once again, this past weekend, she hit me with "remember when you didn't show me a pic of your dress?" I could have gone thru the roof. She keeps holding it against me that she didn't see a picture earlier, nevermind the fact she saw the REAL THING IN PERSON. I don't know what to say to her anymore when she brings this up. My FI tends to get really sarcastic and she gets upset with him when he calls her out on things like this, so I have been keeping him out of it, but i dont know how much more I can take. It makes me feel like crap when she points that out but its just NOT true!
Suggestions???