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I love my fiance but I may kill him....

Ok so tiny little crazy moment. 

My fiance god love him has only been to four weddings in his entire life. two were family and two were with me. He has no concept of what actually goes on during the day of. Whenever I or my wedding planner or anyone else tries to tell him how busy we'll actually be the day of he looks at us like we're insane. He thinks it's going to be like his family reunion where we'll be able to sit down and talk or play games or what not. 
He doesn't understand why we need an hour for pictures or why we would need a photographer for more than five hours. Or why there is a cocktail hour, or why we cant have everything done and over with a 6 pm. he's got his heart set on a morning wedding or a two hour reception.  I don't know how else to explain any of it to him and I don't know how to get him to see where I'm coming from. I'm trying really hard to see where he's coming from and to understand that he thinks all weddings should be like his families have been. 

i feel like he's going to be really unhappy with every decision we make and that he's only agreeing so that we can get the plans made. So I'm not really sure what to do. 
HELP!!!!
I really want him to be happy with all the decisions but sometimes I feel like he's just agreeing so we can get the plans made.  
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Re: I love my fiance but I may kill him....

  • edited December 2011
    aww sorry to hear that. i had a moment like that recently where i just felt like he wanted to skip the reception entirely (because he's a mega-introvert). the way i've been able to get mr.owl to participate/hear me out is to SHOW him ideas. if you can, show him other people's timelines, national budget averages, pictures of your ideas, etc. The more you can make it tangible to him, the better.
    Good luck!
  • edited December 2011
    T... I'm not really sure there's much I can help with here... but try to focus on the marriage... the wedding is just the party.  After the wedding, you'll be married and all the wedding stuff will be a thing of the past.  The groom is not always over enthused about the planning stuff =\
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