Ok Ladies, I need your advice and experience!
We need to find a venue for 120 people on a suday in april/may 2014, anywhere in NJ, at less than $110 pp inclusive.
The ideal place would have a ceremony/cocktail hour on a patio/deck, a beautiful, non-banquety, antiquey interior (not a tent), and woodsy, natural looking grounds (not a golf course or overly manicured garden, water would be great), and modern/flexible/delicious food with interesting vegetarian options. I value quality of food and beauty of venue over quantity of food.
Our favorite place was Lake Valhalla, but the manager wouldn't negotiate price/menu and was a little difficult. We also liked the interiors of the women's clubs of Glen Ridge and Upper Montclair, but didn't like the limited outdoor space and I'm nervous about the set up and outside vendor process there.
Did anyone else start out with a similar wishlist? Where did you end up? Recommendations and comments/prices are appreciated!