Ok I'm mad that I missed FFFC Friday but I'm going to share this and hopefully I won't get flamed because this actually HAPPENED on Friday...
I have a coworker who has been pushing my buttons for years. She is constantly telling me how to do my job, and trying to bully me into doing what she wants. (In a nutshell...I put on a program every year to honor the culture she is a member of...she doesn't like how I do it). She is one of those people who always gets what she wants because she causes a scene when she doesn't.
Well, Friday we had a big event that I had been preparing for for months. She went at me again...and I lost it. I loudly and in no unclear terms told her I don't appreciate her undermining my authority, and if she had a problem with what I was doing she should have told me before we were "in the moment." She started stammering about me being "disrespectful" and said, "Can I talk to you for a minute?" I said no. She stared talking at me and I walked away. She followed me and I walked away again.
I'm not gonna lie, it felt good.