Our date is either the weekend of May 2, 2014 (Friday, Saturday, or Sunday not sure yet) or a tiny, immediate family and minister wedding sooner. Like May 2013.
If we went with the tiny family wedding, this is my question...
My mother wants to still throw my a bridal shower. I think it is rude to invite a person to a bridal shower and not the wedding. That's like saying "You're not important enough to come to wedding so I just want you to buy me something." My FSIL said they could throw me a house-warming shower instead, but I'm still iffy on accepting that offer because I feel like people would ask why they weren't invited.
What would you do in this situation?