FI and I attend an Episcopal church where we go to school, but we are getting married at the church in my hometown. Our priest in our current city will be co-officiating the ceremony at the invitation of my hometown priest.
Our Current Priest is all but insisting that we celebrate the eucharist at the wedding. The Hometown Priest does not AT ALL want us to do it.
Should I say anything, or just let the two of them work it out? FI and I would really like to have it, in an ideal world. It's important to us, but I'm also not willing to start a fight with the hometown church over it.
Does your answer make a difference if it would push the ceremony time from about 35-40 minutes to around 60-70 minutes?