Hi everyone
New to this web/posting site. Kind of got engaged but because my fiance has no clue on shopping if it doesn't involve electronics he felt it's better to let me shop around at a few jewelers to see what I like. Then I will show him my decisions and he will pick out one of my ring choices as a surprise plus at the same time he knows I'll be 100% happy with my special rings. Problem I'm running into is having a 3 stone princess cut ring as my wedding band. I may have to end up getting what I want hand made but when I convey my ideas to male jewelers they only focus on the princess cut engagement ring, have no concept of what I envision on my finger or they just want to sell me the usual expensive basic stock rings they want to unload. This is becoming a nightmare alone!
This is my second marriage..first 'wedding' and his first everything! I'm an older
(51) single parent, he's a younger (36) single parent. I'm not doing the 'traditional' bridesmaid, matron of honour or any of the ceremonial perks that only cause drama. He's agreed to hold everything in his backyard and will be a very small intimate gathering of no more than 25 family/friends. He wants to stick to a budget, but the budget is only in his mind and has agreed to pay for everything excluding my gown! I'm trying to keep things simple but he keeps adding more costly items to our wedding but tells me stick to this secret 'budget'.
I don't want nor am I trying to be stressed or a bridzilla over this happy occasion especially when I know what I want but have no clue or time to plan other than on paper. I think I should just hire a wedding planner, give them all of my details/ideas of what we want to have happen from start to finish. I'm taking care of my sick mom, my disabled child as well as my own health issues but I want to be physically able to enjoy this day this second time around!
Once we discuss an official date will I be able to find some reasonable planners who will take the reins, arrange my ideas off paper and still keep costs down?
HELP....my plate is full!