I've only invited my three closest coworkers to both the wedding and the reception. There's a few others that I would have loved to have, just didn't have the space and budget for. Would it be rude to offer them to come to the church for the ceremony, even if we can't have them at the reception?
There's an older one in particular, in a position above me, who I work closely with and who's followed me through the process and been there for my venting, offering advice along the way. I'd love to give her the details for when the ceremony is, in case she'd like to cut out of work with the other girls to come watch (it's a friday afternoon wedding). Is it rude to offer her and possibly others these details when they're not invited to the reception? And how could I go about sharing the info with her in a kind way?
(She realizes she's not invited to the reception, because I've had complaints to her on some problems I experienced in that department). I just don't know if she realizes she's welcome to come to the church without the invite.
Thanks!!