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Tension vent

annanoel21annanoel21
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I've got 2 weeks left and let me say tension is high. I kicked 1 person out the wedding yesterday. I'm still unsure if 1 Groomsman and ring bearer have got fitted yet. As well as we have been working on our house for a week now and got a bunch done since we had to strip it completely .... but still so much to do. Me and FI, my parents and his parents have been working on it. My dad is one who thinks he is the only one that knows how to paint properly, and no one else can do it right. If he would just let us do our s we could have the house finished already. It doesn't have to be perfect! I am just ready to move my in already like it is. Half painted and still needs flooring put down. At this point I don't care how it looks. I'm just ready to move into MY place. Yes, they did buy us this place, but I'm not to worried about how it looks. It already looks 1000x better than when they bought it! I just wish everyone could get along and tensions be gone.
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  • achiduckachiduck member
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    Why did you kick someone out of your wedding party?
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  • annanoel21annanoel21
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    BC they did not want to do anything. She would never give me a straight answer about if she had her dress and wouldn't answer or reply calls/text. My moh is supposed to be by my side when she didn't do anything. Didn't attention any of my parties and has been no help at all.
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  • RockstarWifey0912RockstarWifey0912
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    1. Attending parties is not required.  Buying a dress and standing up with you is.

    2. I feel you on the no communication thing.  It's annoying when all you want is a frigging answer and they can't do that.  We had a groomsmen do that and almost got knocked out but he did get his tux fitting in the end.

    3.  Sorry about the stress of the house.  It's tough but it'll all be over soon!

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  • annanoel21annanoel21
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    No, the MOH is supposed to be there for everything. If she was just a BM it would be different! But she is MOH and has done nothing.


    In Response to Re:Tension vent:[QUOTE]1. Attending parties is not required. nbsp;Buying a dress and standing up with you is.2. I feel you on the no communication thing. nbsp;It's annoying when all you want is a frigging answer and they can't do that. nbsp;We had a groomsmen do that and almost got knocked out but he did get his tux fitting in the end.3. nbsp;Sorry about the stress of the house. nbsp;It's tough but it'll all be over soon! Posted by RockstarWifey0912[/QUOTE]
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  • BrittneyRNBrittneyRN
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    In Response to Re:Tension vent:No, the MOH is supposed to be there for everything. If she was just a BM it would be different! But she is MOH and has done nothing. In Response to Re:Tension vent:1. Attending parties is not required. nbsp;Buying a dress and standing up with you is.2. I feel you on the no communication thing. nbsp;It's annoying when all you want is a frigging answer and they can't do that. nbsp;We had a groomsmen do that and almost got knocked out but he did get his tux fitting in the end.3. nbsp;Sorry about the stress of the house. nbsp;It's tough but it'll all be over soon! Posted by RockstarWifey0912 Posted by annanoel21 No. Rockstatwifey is right. Attending parties is NOT required of a moh. Brides have too high of expectations. All that is required of her is getting a dress and showing up on your wedding day. Kicking someone out of a wedding party is a friendship ending moving. Also, even though she is the MOH, she does have a life outside your wedding and may have had other, more important things to do.
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  • annanoel21annanoel21
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    No an end of friendship is her never having anything to do with the wedding. She is the one that is supposed to be by my side. She has not been there at all. Period. Yes everyone has a life but there's a difference BC having a life and not doing .




    In Response to Re:Tension vent:[QUOTE]In Response to Re:Tension vent:No, the MOH is supposed to be there for everything. If she was just a BM it would be different! But she is MOH and has done nothing.


    In Response to Re:Tension vent:1. Attending parties is not required. nbsp;Buying a dress and standing up with you is.2. I feel you on the no communication thing. nbsp;It's annoying when all you want is a frigging answer and they can't do that. nbsp;We had a groomsmen do that and almost got knocked out but he did get his tux fitting in the end.3. nbsp;Sorry about the stress of the house. nbsp;It's tough but it'll all be over soon! Posted by RockstarWifey0912 Posted by annanoel21




    No. Rockstatwifey is right. Attending parties is NOT required of a moh. Brides have too high of expectations. All that is required of her is getting a dress and showing up on your wedding day. Kicking someone out of a wedding party is a friendship ending moving. Also, even though she is the MOH, she does have a life outside your wedding and may have had other, more important things to do. Posted by BrittneyRN[/QUOTE]
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  • CFM102012CFM102012 member
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    If you need help with something WR, ask your FI. My MOH lives in TX and hasn't been able to really do anything WITH me because of the distance. We talk on the phone a lot b/c she's my sister but more than half of my engagement she was planning her own wedding. 
    My other BM's are spread out around the state.  FI's sister was going to throw me a bachelorette party next weekend but none of the other bridesmaids can make it nor any of the other girls I asked her to include. It sucks but it is what it is. FI and I are going to have a fun night out with his sister and her FI instead. They're friends/family, not slaves or props. Anything they offer to do beyond getting the dress and showing up is bonus.
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  • annanoel21annanoel21
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    Thing is she never would order the dress. She completely removed herself from all of us. She could get on fb and post but couldn't reply to us. Fi works nights. Not much help there BC when he's off he's asleep. I work, go to school, plan the wedding, work on the house and still manage to have time to get back and reply to people. Yesterday was probably the best day BC I did kick her out. I am relieved to have her out since she was being nothing but drama if/when she came around.
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