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18 days to go..how can this be??!!!

When I started the planning, it was 209 days, and now it's almost here!  What mixed feelings I have.....nervousness, nausea, panic, excitement....in that order!

I'm hoping that I will hit that "calm zone" that I've heard other second brides talk about.  I still have so many details undone due to having to switch wedding planners midstream...(long ugly story)...but I have faith it will be lovely. 

I really want to make sure I enjoy as much of the 'before' days as I can...any words of wisdom ladies??  The second time is so different, but I think I'm MORE nervous this time!!! 

Re: 18 days to go..how can this be??!!!

  • edited December 2011
    Congratulations and don't forget to BREATHE :)
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  • topcatiomtopcatiom member
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    edited December 2011
    and maybe have a glass of wine (my personal favorite)
  • edited December 2011
    My advice is to get everything done early. Then you don't have last minute stress and can enjoy the last few days of your single life.
    I finished seating charts programs and everything I could ahead of time and had a pretty stress free last few days. My family arrived on Wed from out of town and my best friend from NC arrived on Thursday. We really enjoyed that time together.
    There was just one last minute project and as usual my FI helped at the 11th hour.
    I wanted framed pics of our engagement photos around the reception room so the night before the wedding he came over and we framed them and packed them for the wedding planner. It was really nice alone time for us too.
  • edited December 2011
    Please- schedule one evening (or at least an hour) alone with your Fi.  Sip a glass of wine (or beverage of your choice) with him, enjoy his company.  Look into his eyes and savor the joy that having him in your life has brought you, and tell him how happy you are to marry him.  Snuggle up close, leave wedding plans aside, and be in the moment.  Let the happiness wash over the two of you.  Wedding stress is a buzz kill - find a way to avoid it.  Congrats. ~Donna
  • MikesAngieMikesAngie member
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    edited December 2011
    Congratulations!!!  Remember that you are marrying the love of your life!!  I agree with the PP's take some time and really enjoy your FI before the ceremony.
  • BrooklclarkBrooklclark member
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    edited December 2011
    my wedding is OCT 31st and time is flying i can feel your pain where did the time go...
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