Hey Ladies
Okay so as many of you know, since I've known her SIL has not been very nice to me, infact she has been down right rude. So after months of ignoring the hubz and I, they want to have a meeting with us to 'clear up all the misunderstandings'.
A part of me just doesn't believe them and another part of me is so sick of dealing with this situation. It's funny, they act all richeous trying to get a meeting going but they didn't work with our schedule and wanted to do the meeting at their convenience. I can't help but have resentment towards them for not being flexible to our schedule as well...sheesh!
Hubz and I have a lot of points that we'd like to bring up and I'm sure that BIL/SIL have some comments to make. BIL told me and hubz that this meeting is not to place blame but instead to work through the issues...
I think a big point of dicussion will be the wedding how they may say they felt insulted that they were not able to plan more of the reception program. My only response to that is ...it was OUR wedding day lol.
1. Do you girls have tactical ways of approaching this meeting?
2. Should we bring up the past events that even occurred before the wedding? (I think we should, I mean if we are clearing the air...then I think it's only appropriate).
3. We want to start the meeting off by saying that regardless of the outcome, it they want to maintain some sort of friendship with us, they'll have to start puttin in double the effort (which means they can't be short with us at family events etc).
4. I'm so tired of dealing with them I really don't want to put any effort in...yes I know that contradicts with the above statement so I'm not sure if we should say it.
Okay I need your thoughts and advice on this one...thanks!!