South Asian Weddings

Found a sari!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Today I went wedding-clothes shopping with my best friend A and her daughter Little A, and found something I loved in the right color and the right price range!  I'll have pictures up as soon as I can take them without FI seeing. The sari is currently hiding in my mom's house where he can't sneak a look at it before the wedding. The sari is red with silver and pale gold beadwork on it. I'm going to ask my seamstress of a great-aunt to help me with the blouse (the blouse fabric is attached), because I'm not really ok with shelling out $30 to have the sari shop's seamstress do it for me when I have family who can do it for me.

A found herself a gorgeous chocolate-brown salwar kameez with gold beading, plus bangles and a neckace set to match. Little A got an adorable teal-and-purple salwar kameez with gold accents, and purple and gold bangles to go with it. J (roommate/bridesmaid) was too sick to come with us today and is in a tight spot, money-wise. She's more than likely going to borrow my green sari; we're just going to make her a skirt and plain top to go with it because we don't wear the same size.

In other news... one of FI's coworkers has bunnies that need a home in a few weeks. J has been complaining that she's "turning 27 and in need of something to mother," so he asked her if she wanted a bunny. Well, now she's bouncing off the walls happy, lol. The plan is still to get a couple of kittens after the baby arrives, but we figure a female rabbit is less likely to be territorial about a newborn, while 4 months is plenty of time for a cat to stake its claim to the house. I've been told by many cat owners that it's easier to bring a new kitten into a home with a baby than it is to bring a new baby into a home with a kitten.

...Yes, we're starting a zoo, and no, I have no issue with this. I've never lived in an animal-free home - even my own apartment had at least one pet-type critter in it.
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Re: Found a sari!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • edited December 2011
    Your sari sounds beautiful! i can't wait to see it. It really sounds as though everything else is coming together for the wedding, too. You must be thrilled and relieved at the same time. Did you get your FI's outfit yet?


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  • edited December 2011
    I haven't even gotten him to decide WHAT he wants to wear yet! I have told him, though, that he isn't allowed to show up naked or casually dressed and therefore must have special-occasion-appropriate attire within the next five weeks because the wedding is in six weeks.
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  • edited December 2011
    Congrats! How exciting!
  • kpwedkkkpwedkk member
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    edited December 2011
    Wow! Plans are coming together nicely!!  Awesome!!  There might be some great deals post-Diwali as well for outfits for your FI...

    Also, I had issues from trying keep my outfit secret from my FI at the time as well...  maybe we can PM you with an email address, so you can send us the link, password protected of course :)  I'd love to see what you have gotten as well!

    Also, where you able to get accessories - wedding jewelry, bangles, anklets and shoes yet??

    "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched, they must be felt with the heart." ~ Miss K ~
  • edited December 2011
    I have my jewelry all set, except the anklets and hand bracelets (making them, and still working on the set). Shoes will probably be ballet flats from Payless or something, but those are next month.

    He never uses my computer and he's terminally allergic to wedding planning websites, so I should be safe to post a picture here - but he's off work today so it'll have to wait till tomorrow!
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  • MrsBMMrsBM member
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    edited December 2011
    Nice progress beloved!
    I'm waiting for the picture!
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