So lately things have just been super stressful. I'm mostly talking about stuff at work, and I'm pretty sure it wouldn't be as stressful if the wedding wasn't going on, but I've gotten so close to being like "people, give me a f***ing break!" It's been bad enough to were I've literally been physically exhausted lately (Literally fell asleep tonight right when I got home from work and just woke up...).
Well, I just got an email from my mom. My sister/MOH said she would call my family members that havn't rsvped about whether or not they were coming, but there were still some I hadn't heard from. Unfortunetaly, they were the ones I really didn't want to call. One is a couple that has kinda been feuding with my parents, and other is my crazy aunt (crazy because she got in an accident a few years ago and is now addicted to prescription drugs... it's just sad) who told my sister she shouldn't marry her husband because he was catholic... little does she know my FI is catholic and I am converting to catholicism. She has a tendency to make a scene as well... We debated even inviting her because I ddn't want to have to worry about her saying something at the wedding, but my mom was POSITIVE that she wasn't coming.
Well, I emailed my sister and mom asking if they could contact them (like they said they would). I just got an email from my mom saying that maybe I should call my aunt and uncle (because she didn't want to have a problem). This was frusterating for me since, really, I'd rather not talk to them and they told me they would take care of this for me.
She also said my crazy aunt wasn't coming. She then send me a second email saying she actually might be coming. She said she knws she is supposed to rsvp, but "it shouldn't be a problem to add someone last minute". Almost lost it. Yes it is a problem! I'm almost done with the seating chart, and I don't want to have to stick her with non-family members because I didn't have a place for her at a family table. Plus, I didn't want her there in the first place! My cousins all told me to just not invite her, but I listened to my mom to try and not hurt anyone's feelings. I already am stressed out about the wedding and work stuff, and I don't want to be worrying before the wedding that she is just going to randomly show up and cause a scene at the wedding.... I'm kinda pissed at my mom for telling me to invite her now.
