disregard

breeankers11 · June 2010

x

TNMurray · June 2010

Who do YOU want to walk you down, if no ones feelings would be hurt? It seems like both relationships aren't as close as they used to be so you walking down the aisle yourself maybe an option. That is probably what I would do so I wouldn't have to choose. But to me it sounds like u want ur uncle but are scared of your stepdad.

tidetravel · June 2010

I wouldn't ask your abusive step-dad whom you barely speak to, to walk you down the aisle for the sake of not creating "drama." If he was abusive to my mother, there's no way in hell he would even be invited to the wedding. No friggin way.

Ask your uncle. It seems like it's the right choice, and the one you would make if you weren't afraid of your stepfather.

trix1223 · June 2010

First of all, just for future reference: you walk down an aisle. An isle is a land mass surrounded by water.

I'm with Tide. There's NO WAY ever, ever, ever, ever, ever that I would allow someone who was physically abusive to my mom to walk me down the aisle. IMO, that shows enormous disrespect for your mom.

And if he still has anger issues, why would you put him in any position that could affect your wedding, and the way your guests enjoy it?

Boy, I just don't get it.

bethsmiles · June 2010

I can't believe you would want someone who abused your mother to walk you down the aisle. I think you should walk by yourself because it doesn't sound like you are that close to your uncle either. But if you really want someone to walk you down the aisle then I would go with your uncle not your abusive step-father. Nobody who abused your mother should be honored on your wedding day.

Also you could have your mother walk you down the aisle. Which I think would be very appropriate if you are close to her.

skippylouwho · June 2010

Any man that abused my mother wouldn't be anywhere near me or my wedding.

disregard

Re: disregard

Choose Another Board

Search Boards